“There’s always room to become a better person. Always! ”
Nobody is perfect. People make mistakes trough their whole life. The main thing is to let those mistakes be a lesson for you, because when they are made it is no going back. Everything can be forgiven and everything could be forgotten if we tend to become a better person than we were yesterday.
1. Don’t Be Afraid Of Change
If you want to be a better person than you were yesterday you should definitely not be afraid of change. With change you will be able to become the person you want to be. Only good things come with change, because at the end of the day your life doesn’t become better by chance, it gets better with by change.
“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.” – Rumi.
2.Don’t Blame Others
When people make mistakes, they often find the guilt at others. They know that the mistake is their fault, but they put the burden on other person’s head, so they even start to believe in this. Usually this grows into habit. By cause of that people should instead take the blame for themselves. They will become a better person when they finally start to clean their own mess and take responsibility of what they did. Once they do that, they can learn many lesson from life.
“You are not failure until you start blaming others for your mistakes.” – John Wooden
3. Control Your Anger
People often let their anger speak in their name. This is not you talking. Be calm. Talk only with cooled head, because once you said something it can be undone, it can only be forgiven. When people with control their anger and rage, the world will become a better place to live in, and there would be no crimes.
“Anger is a feeling that makes your mouth work faster than your mind.” – Unknown
4. Try To Be A Role Model To Someone
Once you become someone’s role model you will start to change yourself. Because people do not want to disappoint and ruin what they have and how people see them, so you would not want to let down the person that is looking up to you. Make decisions that people will respect you for. Let them talk about you in a way that the only thing that they will see in you is admiration and greatness.
“I think role model is a mentor – someone you see on a daily basis, and you learn from them” – Denzel Washington.
We know that is quite hard to forgive people that have hurt you. There are even people that we could never forgive them, because they have done something horribly wrong to us. The basic thing is to learn how to forgive, even to those people we thought that we would never forgive. Forgiveness means that we are mature, means that we are letting go our past and for most important forgiveness is what makes us human.
“I don’t forgive people because I’m weak. I forgive them because I am strong enough to understand that people make mistakes.” – Unknown